These are the two questions I get asked and the pain is so real in them that I hate having to have a very difficult conversation and reading. Those two scenarios are “When will he leave his wife” and the other one is “He won’t return my calls, unfriended me, won’t text – what happened?” The person asking this usually has their guides coming through quickly and vehemently with it is not about the other person it is about you. So what is it with us that we think having a relationship with a person who is married is going to pay off for us. Let’s get this straight “He is playing around on his wife”. There is no integrity in that none at all. Why would you think he is going to leave her; why would he. He has a home family and a little on the side and you are the side dish.